In a leadership role, composure becomes part of the job description. You set the tone in difficult meetings, absorb uncertainty so your team can keep moving, and make decisions that affect people who may never see what those decisions cost you. Over time, being the steady one can become a habit you cannot switch off. You may be calm for everyone else and restless when you are alone, or realize you have not said the words “I am struggling” out loud in a very long time.
Therapy offers an hour where the roles reverse. You do not have to reassure anyone, manage anyone's reaction, or have the answer. You can bring the parts of your experience that do not fit the image others rely on.

